Anyone with whom they come into contact is considered a means to their end. The truth is that only a psychologist can determine if you have a narcissistic personality. But in general, if you've been wondering if you're one, chances are you're not.

The cornerstone of being a narcissist is that you will do anything to protect your ego, including making excuses and spreading it, and will refuse to accept responsibility for everything in your life. 

Don't be afraid, we all have that tendency in us. Recognizing them makes the possibility of you being a narcissist worthless. And, if you are, it will be your first step towards recovery.

There are several warning signs for narcissists. It's not that you possess certain qualities, or that you sometimes move between selfish tendencies. Narcissism is any systematic way of looking at life, manipulating people along the way, leaving wounded objects, damaged objects, and failed relationships.






These 10 things answer “no” to the question “Am I a narcissist?”


If you do any of the following, chances are you're not a narcissist... you're just a human. Of course, you're not perfect, but asking questions shows that you see the errors in your methods and care as much as you conscientiously about your actions and actions. Here are 10 signs you may not be a narcissist.


#1 Am I a narcissist?  Narcissists never admit that they have a personality disorder. At every turn, the narcissist will do whatever it takes to protect his image.


They will constantly shade their behavior by finding out what others are doing to cause their bad behavior and refuse to identify themselves.


#2 Do you feel bad about your behavior?  A narcissist treats people in life with depraved indifference. They are the type of people who can cheat someone to make them cry, destroy their job, buy a girlfriend, or cheat, and they can justify their actions without any remorse or bad feelings. The belief in "survival of the fittest" is not remorseful by the narcissist's rationalization.


#3 Have you ever had a successful relationship?  Even if all your relationships don't end happily forever, the narcissist can't have a close bond with anyone.


They often have had a series of wounds in the past, and some have been damaged. Because they feed on people with low self-esteem, relationships rarely work without dependence or complete destruction of relationships with people with whom they rarely exist.


Even if you say you've had quite agitated relationships with other people who aren't worthy of marriage, that doesn't make you narcissistic. You may find it difficult to live, but yes, narcissistic... maybe not.


#4 Isn't that good for people??  If someone in your life is having a hard time and you can feel bad for them, then you are probably not a narcissist. One of the hallmarks of narcissists is that they have no ability to show what is called  empathy.


Empathy is the ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes and feel what you feel. That is, when you see someone suffering, you can suffer. If you feel sorry for someone, you're probably not a narcissist.


Someone who is a narcissist refuses to sympathize with others because they do not feel they are and often act sinister towards someone they are having a hard time with. When they see someone unhappy as responsible for their problems, narcissists feel bad if they don't have a reward or offer very little to help someone in need.


#5 Will you cross the border and go to the dark side??  If you want something and see a clear line between right and wrong, then you are probably not a narcissist. A narcissist is a person who has no remorse and does not know when to fall into the realm of return.


For narcissists, stealing, lying, destroying, calling names, and the rest of the things we don't think about, it's not that great, but it's totally fine. "Everyone is fair in love and war," perhaps the narcissist is noteworthy.


#6 Would you put someone else's needs higher than yours?  If you're making money to buy something for someone else without spending hard money on yourself and showing off yourself, then you probably aren't a narcissistic personality.


If you make the needs of a partner, friend, or even stranger your own, you deny that you are narcissistic. Being selfish is just one of the traits of a truly narcissistic personality, but it's actually one of the dominant personality traits.


#7 Can you truly accept constructive criticism?  If someone says something constructive about your personal behavior or professional performance and doesn't explode or get angry, then you're probably not of a narcissistic personality.


Narcissists are reluctant to hear negative comments from outside. If you challenge them, take your side or question their beliefs about their actions, especially when it comes to their actions, they encounter you with outbursts of anger and "gas ignition".


It is a psychological tool that throws gas through an argument so that the opponent doesn't make sense in his or her argument or proposal. If you're open to hearing the other side of the story, or admit that you might be wrong, it's very unlikely that you'll consider yourself a narcissist. 


#8 Do you kick others out?  Narcissists usually use the tactic of putting others down to make themselves feel good. It's natural for a narcissist to completely ruin someone they feel intimidated, calling name, or competing.


Someone who is a narcissist has no boundaries for their own retaliatory behavior, wouldn't they learn the golden rule: "If you can't say something great, don't say anything"?


#9 Do you put love on hold?  One of the best tools of a narcissistic trainer is to put love on hold. A narcissist cannot offer completely unconditional love. Treat your loved one with indifference and have no problem getting what you want.


Once the other person in the relationship lines up, love begins to flow again. Love doesn't love a narcissist. It's the greatest tool to make someone do what they want. In fact, most narcissists can't love anyone. 


#10 Do you think it's perfect??  I think a narcissist who is in love with himself exemplifies perfection. When you're willing to admit that you're not perfect, make mistakes, and sometimes wish you were better or better, the answer is almost certainly, "Am I a narcissist?"

 In fact, we all have a job of serving ourselves and we will put ourselves first when the job is needed. It's not only part of human nature, it's an evolutionary convention that allows us to survive this long.

The last thing a narcissist will do is admit that they are not perfect. They always feel that they are on the right track, that they are always doing the right thing, and that they are not at fault or responsible for anything. 

In other words, we can all be better and more empathetic people. If you want to feel like a nudist with you and want to be a better person, sometimes try others first.

Remember that giving those around you unconditional love and knowing that when your loved ones are happy you use the backs of those around you, it's a lot more enjoyable than climbing to the top.